Man employed with Pediatrics at Oyster Point arrested for Sexual Battery on a victim < 13

5/23/25 4:30 AM EST  Bob was released last night and is now a free "man".  The preliminary hearing on June 27th is his next scheduled court date. The purpose of preliminary hearings are to determine if there's enough evidence to move forward. Bob's legal team will be FIGHTING to have this case dismissed. If the arresting officer Z.E. Macdonald (Zachary Ericksen Macdonald) did his job correctly, the judge will set a trial date, otherwise Bob would walk. 

5/22/25 4:30 PM EST  Bob may have been given a bond. Court records still say bond hearing was continued but many times the site doesn't fully update until later in the day. New unconfirmed information along with other tips we've gotten the past couple weeks, the strange way he was removed from the inmate logs and our visit to the jail (seem to) indicate Bob was indeed served some INMATE JUSTICE! Check back soon should get some information later tonight if this is true. 

5/21/25 7 AM EST  Bob has changed lawyers. Timothy Clancy is now listed as Robert's attorney. Bond hearing is scheduled for tomorrow @ 10:30 AM. If granted bond, Bob could be released as early as tomorrow afternoon, otherwise his next scheduled court appereance is the Preliminary hearing June 27, 2025.   

5/14/25 12 PM EST  WVEC has also now mentioned Robert Dessoffy AKA "Bob" worked at Pediatrics at Oyster Point.  https://www.13newsnow.com/article/news/crime/newport-news-man-past-sexual-offense-involving-minor/291-87e3e7d7-548b-4afb-95ae-23dec5642bc4

5/14/25 7 AM EST pediatricsatoysterpoint.com has removed the picture including Bob from the images on their website. Looks like the last change was made late last night. Got this timestamp from their Wordpress RSS Feed (Tue, 13 May 2025 11:58:40 +0000.)  You can find that image just above in the photo gallery. 

5/14/25 6 AM EST As of last night Vinelink is reporting Bob as having a custody status change. Bob has never been listed on the main Sheriff website and the phone system doesn't show him there either which is odd. Where's Bob?    https://vinelink.vineapps.com/search/persons;limit=20;offset=0;showPhotos=true;isPartialSearch=false;siteRefId=VASWVINE;personFirstName=Robert;personLastName=Dessoffy;stateServed=VA

5/12/25 8 AM EST  Court docs have posted , 4 felony charges against Robert Dessoffy visit https://eapps.courts.state.va.us/ocis/search search for "DESSOFFY, ROBERT"

2 Counts of INDECENT ACT W/CHILD CUSTODIAN  & 2 Counts of AGG SEX BATTERY: VICTIM <13 YR 

5/12/25 5 AM EST  Added a couple new photos in the gallery above (thanks for sending tipster!). These pretty much confirm Bob worked at Pediatrics at Oyster Point dating back to at least June of 2023. Bob sold his car wash business for $1.5 Million only to go work as secretary in a children's clinic was just charged with AGGRAVATED SEXUAL BATTERY: VICTIM <13 YRS.  

5/10/25 8 AM EST  Thanks to a tip, we did find a link between Tamara F Dessoffy and Pediatrics at Oyster Point  in court dockets. Tamara Dessoffy is also listed as "Owner at Oyster Point Car Wash" which show connection between her and her husband. Tamara F Dessoffy appears to be an AKA for Tammy Flint Dessoffy.  Also mentioned is the Childrens Hospital of the Kings Daughters. https://www.pacermonitor.com/public/case/52478078/Smith_et_al_v_Dessoffy_et_al       https://dockets.justia.com/docket/virginia/vaedce/4:2024cv00028/549845

 (SEE NEW IMAGES IN GALLERY ABOVE)  

Where's Bob? https://vinelink.vineapps.com/search/persons;limit=20;offset=0;showPhotos=true;isPartialSearch=false;siteRefId=VASWVINE;personFirstName=Robert;personLastName=Dessoffy;stateServed=VA

UPDATE 1 PM EST 5/9/25 Bob Dessoffy has been arrested and was booked into the  Newport News city jail Friday morning after turning himself in. He has been charged with AGGRAVATED SEXUAL BATTERY: VICTIM <13 YRS  Z.E. MACDONALD was listed as the arresting officer. 

This is a developing story. Subject is presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law

Two arrest warrants were posted on Bob Dessoffy Wednesday for having sexual relations with a pre teen child.  

Robert is the previous owner  of the Sparkle Flex Car Wash located at 519 Oyster Point Rd in the city of Newport News and has been charged with AGGRAVATED SEXUAL BATTERY: VICTIM <13 YRS. The warrants for Robert were for having indecent liberties with a child by a parent and aggravated sexual battery: Victim < 13 Years Old.

Robert Raymond Dessoffy, JR (AKA Bob) along with his wife Tammy Flint Dessoffy, his father Robert Raymond Dessoffy, JR founded the now closed Oyster Point Carwash in 1999. His father Robert Dessoffy Sr passed away in 2014

"In 1999, he joined with his son Bob, Jr. and his wife Tammy Flint Dessoffy in building the Oyster Point Car Wash in Newport News. He moved to Newport News in January of this year to be close to his family. Surviving children and their spouses are Robert R. Dessoffy, Jr. and wife Tammy of Newport News,"  https://www.rhaydensmith.com/obituary/6344657

https://dockets.justia.com/docket/virginia/vaedce/4:2024cv00028/549845

Bob Dessoffy sold his car wash business in 2021 to HIPPO CAR WASH INC. however the name remains Sparkle Flex

BBB Page for Sparkle Flex Car Wash still lists Robert as the owner  https://www.bbb.org/us/va/newport-news/profile/car-wash/sparkle-flex-0583-90142143

INDECENT LIBERTIES: W/CHILD BY PARENT/ETC
DESSOFFY, ROBERT R.    6ft 1in    245 lbs    BRO    BRO    06/19/1958    66    M    W    05/07/2025

AGGRAVATED SEXUAL BATTERY: VICTIM <13 YRS 

Brian Kevin Butchner is in business with Robert's wife Tammy. Same address as the pediatrics center just a different suite. Wonder if Bob will goto work at the Botox center now? Dr. Brian K. Butcher is a board-certified pediatrician at Pediatrics at Oyster Point in Newport News